Welcome to KC Hope
KC HOPE is a support group for those who have lost babies through miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss. We meet once a month in suburban Kansas City, Missouri. At KC HOPE, we welcome all who have suffered from infant loss, whether it was yesterday or decades ago. During our gatherings, we devote a portion of time to a topic of interest and spend the remainder of our meeting talking about our babies and discussing our recent experiences with grief. Topics of discussion include the grief pattern, fear, anger, emptiness, guilt, sadness, depression, differences between men & women’s grief, marital stress, and healing & acceptance. At KC HOPE, our mission is to provide and find support, to make friendships, and to remember and honor our babies in meaningful and dignified ways.
Your healing starts here! For more information, you may find meeting location and dates on our “Schedule” Page. We encourage you to reach out to our Facilitator, Charmel Clough, if you have any questions.
What to Expect
Come As You Are
» KC HOPE is sponsored by Emilia’s Wings. Our gatherings are small and informal. We generally have 4-12 individuals present per meeting.
» Meetings take place the first Wednesday of each month. We begin at 7:00 pm and finish promptly at 9:00 pm. We ask that you try your best to arrive on-time.
» Because of the sensitive nature of our group, babies and children are not allowed at our monthly meetings. However, we do welcome young children and all other family members at our special events that take place throughout the year (Father’s Day BBQ, Walk to Remember, Christmas Candlelight Ceremony, etc.)
» Pregnancy after loss is a unique experience of grief and joy that requires recognition from family, friends, and peers. KC HOPE supports courageous mamas pregnant again after a loss and those who have recently welcomed a rainbow baby into their families. We embrace and encourage ALL to continue attendance at our gatherings as necessary to support their needs.
» Listen generously. Turn off all electronics and step out if you must take a call or text.
» Each participant will be given an opportunity to share as much or as little of their story as they wish. We ask all participants to keep the conversation relevant to Pregnancy & Infant Loss so that everyone can participate.
» Participation in our group discussions is completely voluntary and we welcome our members to say “pass” on any topics they do not feel comfortable sharing with the group. Everyone’s presence is appreciated and can be a source of healing for others. Listening is a gift, too.
» Everything said and heard in the group will be treated with respect for the participants’ privacy. What is said in the group stays in the group.
» We share feelings and experiences just as they are. There are no right or wrong statements and we give ourselves permission to be vulnerable in the moment, to not bury our feelings or put on a “brave face.”
» We do not compare ourselves or our experiences to others, as everyone’s grief and circumstances are unique.
» Some topics may be emotionally overwhelming. If you need to leave or take a break, at any time and for any reason, you are free to do so.
» Participants are welcome to attend as many or as few meetings as necessary to support their needs.
Disclaimer: KC HOPE and its members are not licensed counselors or medical providers. Although it can be therapeutic, KC HOPE gatherings are not intended to be a replacement for therapy or medical advice. Diagnosis and treatment of physical, mental, or emotional conditions should be given by your own medical provider or licensed counselor.