Shell that Holds the Sea

โ€œ๐š๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐š๐ง, ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ˆ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ€ ๐Ÿš๐ŸŒŠ

Grief, in many ways, is like the ocean.
Some days the waves are heavy and relentless, arriving without warning and leaving us breathless. Other days the water is calmer, offering space to rest and simply exist. The ocean never disappears. It changes, just as grief does.

Along the shore, grief leaves behind seashells. Small reminders of love, memory, and connection. Some are smooth from time and touch, others fragile and sharp-edged. We donโ€™t choose when we find them, but when we do, they remind us of what was held, what was lost, and what still remains.

Grief asks us not to outrun the ocean, but to learn how to walk its shoreline – carrying both the weight of the waves and the quiet beauty left behind.

Last month at BLOOM, each person in attendance was given a large seashell to decoupage an ocean wave onto. Much like gemstones, each month of the year has its own โ€œbirth shellโ€ – a shell that carries meaning and symbolism for those born under it. Each parent was able to go home with the birth shell of their child and a pearl, to place inside their โ€œshell that holds a wave,โ€ as a reminder that love still remains. ๐Ÿš

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